Yoram Yasur: Many parents now face the difficult situation of divorce, in some cases the children stay with the mothers, but there are also cases of men becoming single parents. Yoram Yasur Izz: “The first thing you need to do now that you have become a single dad is to understand that it is not a question of trying to fulfill both roles, being a father and a mother at the same time, but being a good father that your little one can want to help and love”. These practical tips will tell you what you should do to become a good single parent.
The 3 Keys to Success for a single dad:
- Be always optimistic about yourself and the future
- Look for a safe and stable job
- Want, understand and love your little ones
Yoram Yasur Izz: “These three rules for success can be very helpful, always keep in mind that you are not alone and that you can turn to family and friends. This is just a few tips you can put into practice, now that you have become a single dad”.
- Talk to your little ones:
The basis for success as a single parent is to talk to your children about the values, limits and rules that will be established in your home, always maintain an atmosphere of respect and cooperation, this way you can better organize the time, remember that from now on only you will be the one in charge to take them to the school and to have everything ready. With a good organization everything is possible. In other words try to avoid the emperor syndrome.
- Keep a routine:
If you have small children, it is best to follow a daily routine, so mealtime can become a time to share what happened to them during the day. Yoram Yasur Izz: “Always show attention to your children, value their triumphs, but also sets limits to provide them with quality education and moral values”.
- Establish friendly relationships with your ex:
It is not fair for your little one to be in the middle of the two, remember that he will always love them equally. Try to solve your differences with your ex-partner outside the child’s ears, in this way he can have a happy childhood.
- Work does not stop you from sharing time with your child.
Yoram Yasur Izz: “A word of encouragement and learning to listen when he tells you his things, is one of the things that your child will remember most in the future, learn to spend time, remember that when the years pass the moments you spent with him will be what you remember most”.
Do not try to be the perfect father, you better be a father who accepts the mistakes and who amends them and continues forward. Being a single dad will help you get closer to your child, take care of and love your little one.